Antam Sanskar

Before death

At a Sikh's death-bed, relatives and friends should read Sukhmani Sahib, the Prayer of Peace, composed by the fifth Guru Arjan Dev, or simply recite "Waheguru" to console themselves and the dying person. When a death occurs, they should exclaim "Waheguru, Waheguru, Waheguru" (the Wonderful Lord).

If the death occurs in a hospital, the body is taken to the funeral parlor or home before the funeral. In preparation for cremation (usually the day before or day of the cremation), the body is first wāed while those present recite the Gurmantar Waheguru or Mool Mantar. Then the body is dressed with clean clothes complete with the Five Ks (in the case of Amritdhari Sikhs).

Funeral

Whilst there is no outright religious rule regarding clothing colour, Sikhs traditionally wear white at-funerals. Some diasporic Sikhs, such as in North America, have adopted the Western custom of wearing black at funerals.

Cremation

On the day of the cremation, the body is taken to the Gurdwara or home where Shabads (hymns) from the Guru Granth Sahib, the Sikh Scriptures, are recited by the congregation, which induce feeling of consolation and courage. Kirtan may also be performed by Ragis while the relatives of the deceased recite "Waheguru". This service normally takes from 30 to 60 minutes. At the conclusion of the service, an Ardas is said before the body is taken to the cremation site.

At the point of cremation, a few Shabads are sung and final speeches are made about the deceased person. Then the Kirtan Sohila (night time prayer) is recited and finally Ardas called the "Antim Ardas" ("Final Prayer") is offered. The eldest son or a close relative generally starts the cremation process – by lighting the fire or pressing the button for the burning to begin. This service usually lasts about 30 to 60 minutes.

The ashes are later collected and immersed in a body of water. Sikhs do not erect monuments over the remains of the dead.

After the cremation ceremony, there may be another service at the Gurdwara, the Sikh place of worship, called the Sahaj Paath Bhog Ceremony.

''Sehaj Pāth''

After the death of a Sikh, the family of the deceased may undertake a non-continuous reading of the entire Guru Granth Sahib (known as a Sahaj Paath), known as a Sahaj Paath Bhog ceremony. The ceremony is performed by a granthi or any learned-man. This reading (paath) is timed to conclude within ten days of the death of the person. The reading may be undertaken at home or in the Gurdwara and usually takes place on the day of the cremation. The conclusion of this ceremony called the Bhog Ceremony marks the end of the mourning period.

Generally, all the relatives and friends of the family gather together for the Bhog ceremony on the completion of the reading of Guru Granth Sahib. Musicians sing appropriate Shabad hymns, Saloks of the ninth Guru Tegh Bahadur are read, and Ramkali Saad, the Call of God, is recited. After the final prayer, a selected reading or Hukam is taken, and Karah Parshad is distributed to the congregation. Normally food from the Guru's kitchen, Langar, is also served.

Dispersal of ashes

After the completion of the sehaj pāth, the ashes of the deceased are taken to a flowing body of water to be dispersed by close family. If it is not possible to disperse the ashes in flowing water, then they may be buried. There is no religious requirement for the ashes to be dispersed at any particular location or site, but it has become a popular tradition amongst Sikhs to disperse them at Kiratpur into the Sutlej river, specifically at Gurdwara Patalpuri Sahib. However, Sikhs can disperse the ashes in any flowing body of water and there are no restrictions on which flowing body of water the ashes must be dispersed in or where it must occur. Historically, many Sikhs traditionally used to disperse the ashes of the deceased at Haridwar, where genealogical records were maintained, however going to this specific site fell out of favour with many Sikhs, as Sikhism does not encourage or emphasize any particular place. Keeping the ashes in a specific place and memorializing them is forbidden in Sikhism, as Sikhs are supposed to let-go of emotional attachment to the dead and focus on the present rather than the past.

Whilst Hindus generally immerse the ashes of their departed into the Ganges river, such at Haridwar, which is performed by the closest male-relative, Sikhs on the other-hand generally immerse the ashes of their deceased family into the Sutlej river at Kiratpur. As per Sikh hagiographical accounts, Guru Amar Das convinced the Mughal emperor Akbar to relinquish the pilgrimage tax on Hindus travelling to Haridwar.

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